I've started reading
The Reason for God by Timothy Keller. I'm really digging the book. It's not written in the bland evangelical speak that tends to go in one ear and out the other. It has strong logic and reason and sticks it to moral relativism, hoisting it on the petards of its own arguments. This is good intellectual judo, and it rocks.
Keller is the pastor of a thriving church in Manhattan, of all places. Yet his church doesn't water down the Gospel. It still hews to orthodox Christian teachings. It doesn't put on a spectacle, yet it attracts hip, urbane, artsy folks. And let's remember that this is in Manhattan, of all places. In reading the book, I get the sense that
Redeemer Presbyterian in
NYC is a lot like my beloved
Summit Church in Orlando or the ginormous
Flatirons Community Church here in Lafayette. They preach the undiluted Bible, yet attract young, intelligent, sophisticated people. What's going on here?
I think one thing that is key, is a bit of humility. This is not wishy-washy, spineless humility. It seems to be a good humility born out of the sense that, although we have encountered the absolute Truth, we are neither perfect interpreters nor executors of it. It is a departure from the binary thinking that if we hold the Truth, that anyone who disagrees with us or differs with us is wrong, stupid, or evil. It holds a realization that we are humans and we are flawed. It bears in mind that because of our flaws, we can try to be righteous, but apart from Christ, we will fail. This breeds compassion, acceptance, and sensitivity. And furthermore, this humility is expressing these things to others, especially non-believers, with authenticity. It is speaking the Truth in love. Standing on the sidewalk shouting at every passerby that homosexuality is a sin may be factually correct, but misses the second part of that phrase.

How important is mixing love into our speaking the Truth?
1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. 1 Corinthians 13:1-3
It's pretty darn important. If your orthodox beliefs were handed to you straight from St. Peter, yet you execute them with judgment, condemnation, and a firm belief in your own superiority, you are missing the point. How might this love manifest itself in bringing the Truth to the world? Perhaps through compassion, sensitivity, and acceptance. It does not manifest as vilifying those who do not believe as you do, condemning those who live differently from you, or shouting down those who speak opposing messages. While you may satisfy your need to win, encourage those who believe likewise, and rest secure in satisfaction that you are in the right, it will leave a trail of bitter destruction, resentment, and fear.
Speaking the Truth in love is what I see in this breed of church. The love that they can show to the skeptical, the non-believer, and the opponent does not compromise the Truth, but alters the way in which they show it to the world. The blend of unyielding truth, sophisticated delivery, sensitivity to reasonable doubt, and sharing of the love God has for every person (believer or unbeliever) seems to be highly effective. Showing people that you are interested in them as a person rather than as a tally mark in the count of debates won or souls converted will go a long way to opening hearts to the Truth we as Christians hold. Their doubts about Christianity or God are their spiritual beliefs. Those beliefs are central to who they are, just as a Christian's beliefs are to them. Showing that you take their doubts, problems, and hurts seriously and that you can handle them with nuance and care, is a way to demonstrate the love of Christ to that person, and that you take them seriously. On top of that, it's a way to illustrate that Christianity does not require you to check your brain at the door.
Intelligent people generally have thought out reasons for believing what they do. Not all attacks on Christianity are motivated by hate or some crypto-atheist agenda. If we can treat people and their reasons for their beliefs with respect and love, we may find that they can muster respect for our beliefs as well. And God only knows where that could lead...