Jen and I did a marathon home hunting session yesterday, testing both the energy level of ourselves and our realtor,
Chris Carter. We saw 13 different houses across Louisville, Lafayette, and Superior.
Unfortunately there were none that really leapt out as a super good option. There was one that was just really perfect, but about 200 square feet too small. There was one that had a good feel, nice lawn, and good downstairs, but a kitchen built with despair. Another one was fantastic, but had barely any lawn and exposure to neighbors and sun everywhere, giving the outside that suburban parking lot feel. There was another that was gigantic, beautiful, and amazing, but smooshed with its face up against the ass of a grocery store with no back yard, so it really would have felt like living in a parking lot; one that abuts a penitentary. There was a fun one I really liked that had a kitchen smaller than many SUVs. There was one where the kitchen and main living area were all upstairs, making for an odd-feeling house. It's not wrong, but there's just this cognitive dissonance in our heads about it and the idea of taking groceries up a big flight of stairs for the rest of our lives. There was, of course, also the one that was brilliant, wonderful, excellent ... and $30,000 too expensive. Of course, there were ones that I would have broken out a 10-foot or longer pole before I'd think about touching them, but other than laughing at their flaws, there is not much to say about them.
So, all in all, there's nothing that I'd put an offer out on right now, but we've almost exhausted the pool of houses in our price range. Please be praying for us in this process. We have found, shockingly enough, that though our tastes are similar, they don't perfectly align. It'll be an interesting process of compromise and God's providence to find one we both can live with (and in). It can be quite overwhelming to be thinking about where we want to be 30 years from now, and how kids would fit in and whether our souls would die there or if we'd have to spend thousands renovating to feel like we live there and all that. The future is compacting itself and showing up all at once on our doorstep. Knock, knock! Hi! I'm the future, and I'm intimidating!